Erscheint: September 2026
Buch (Softcover): Fachbuch
The Conflict Instinct
Why You Say "It's Fine" When It Isn't
Verlag:
Readers First Publishing Unsere-Artikel-Nr.: P36877037
EAN: 9781804281697
Erscheint: September 2026
Versand: Kostenlos
CHF 35.50
Beschreibung
In The Conflict Instinct, author Jordan Ellis maps the appeasement reflex. - the automatic pattern that. converts a two-minute honest conversation into sixteen weeks of silent resentment, a disagreement about. holiday plans into seventy years of burnt sugar as your only permitted rebellion. Ellis demonstrates that chronic conflict-avoidance doesn't prevent friction - it transforms addressable. disagreements into unaddressable grudges. The work colleague whose mistakes go unmentioned until the. entire project collapses. The boundary never drawn until the friendship ends without explanation. The small. "yes" that locks you into years of quiet scorekeeping. Readers will discover:. -. Why the right moment to speak up. shrinks by the hour, and why "I'll say something next time" is a. promise you won't keep. -. The hidden scorekeeping system that activates the moment you silence a legitimate concern. -. How "it's fine" functions as a loan with compounding interest - relief now, resentment later. -. The three-sentence pattern that replaces appeasement with honest disagreement without becoming. combative. -. Why burnt sugar, forgotten groceries, and small acts of sabotage replace the conversations you refuse to. have. -. The fifteen-second window when a boundary still feels negotiable - and what happens after it closes. The Conflict Instinct provides a field-tested framework for recognizing when appeasement has replaced. honesty, and the specific steps to reset the pattern before the original issue becomes unsalvageable.
Spezifikationen
Sprache
- Englisch
Autor
- Jordan Ellis
Erscheinungsjahr
- 2026
Format
- Buch (Softcover)
Anzahl Seiten
- 156