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Buch (Softcover): Ratgeber
The Control Instinct
When Money Becomes the Way One Partner Keeps the Other In Line
Verlag:
Readers First Publishing Unsere-Artikel-Nr.: P36473384
EAN: 9781804281055
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Zustellung: Do, 29.10.2026
Versand: Kostenlos
CHF 43.75
Beschreibung
The Control Instinct: When Money Becomes the Way One Partner Keeps the Other in Line. Control over shared money is rarely announced; it accumulates one small, reasonable-sounding decision at a time, until one person needs permission to live and the other has forgotten they are the one giving it. Part of The Money Instinct Library, Jordan Ellis's latest book explores how financial power dynamics subtly take root in marriages, family businesses, and caretaking relationships. This book is not about the dramatic, headline-making versions of financial theft or hidden bank accounts. Instead, it addresses the quiet, deniable patterns of leverage that disguise themselves as practicality, responsibility, and even love. Whether you are the one rehearsing a defense for a pair of running shoes, or the one who genuinely believes you manage the finances to protect your family, this book sheds light on the invisible architecture of your financial arrangement. Inside, you will explore eight distinct relationship dynamics, including:. The Allowance:. The adult financial arrangement that requires a performance of gratitude to keep resources flowing. The Question Behind Every Purchase:. The interrogation disguised as curiosity that acts as a gatekeeper for everyday spending. The Signature That Isn't Yours:. The parent's financial help and co-signed leases that never found an exit strategy. The Silence at the Register:. The information asymmetry where one partner holds the passwords and makes the decisions while the other is left a step behind. The Family Business:. The informal employment arrangement that costs you your leverage and formal standing. The Currency of Care:. The caretaking relationship where money becomes the last available language to express fear or control. Ellis offers no financial allocation strategies or debt payoff plans. Instead, you will find a breakdown of the psychological mechanisms that keep these systems in place. Crucially, the book provides actionable "overrides" and specific conversational scripts addressed to both sides of the arrangement. The Control Instinct is a guide to helping two people dismantle their financial hierarchy and rebuild genuine equality, one honest conversation at a time.
Spezifikationen
Sprache
- Englisch
Autor
- Jordan Ellis
Erscheinungsjahr
- 2026
Format
- Buch (Softcover)
Anzahl Seiten
- 222