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Buch (Softcover): Ratgeber
The Merge Instinct
What Happens When Two Money Nervous Systems Try to Become One
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Readers First Publishing Unsere-Artikel-Nr.: P36474413
EAN: 9781804281024
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Nicht auf Lager
Zustellung: Di, 15.09.2026
Versand: Kostenlos
CHF 36.75
Beschreibung
The Merge Instinct: What Happens When Two Money Nervous Systems Try to Become One. You already did the hard, brave thing: you told each other the truth about your finances. The debts, the savings, the salaries-everything is on the table. So why are you still standing in the kitchen at eleven at night, arguing over a twelve-dollar coffee or a basic budget update. Most financial advice treats disclosure as the finish line. The Merge Instinct reveals that honesty is actually just the starting gun. When couples fight about money post-disclosure, they aren't fighting about math or secrets. They are experiencing a collision of two different financial nervous systems-deeply ingrained reflexes about what money is for, learned decades ago in childhood. Author Jordan Ellis provides a clear, practical anatomy of the hidden psychological forces that drive couples to conflict, offering a new framework to bridge the gap. This is not a budgeting manual or a guide to splitting bills. It is a roadmap to the emotional mechanics of shared money. Inside, you will discover:. The Second Language of Money:. Why you and your partner can look at the exact same bank balance and experience two entirely different physical reactions. The Unsigned Ledger:. How couples silently track invisible contributions, like emotional labor and household management, and why these unspoken tallies breed resentment. The Parent in the Room:. How to recognize when you are actually relitigating an old childhood dynamic rather than arguing with your partner. The Definition of "Yes". Why a casual agreement to a purchase means a binding contract to one partner and a loose concept to the other. Actionable Overrides:. Specific, in-the-moment scripts and strategies to short-circuit financial fights before they escalate. Stop trying to cure your partner of their financial instincts. The Merge Instinct provides the translator you need to finally build a shared financial life that accommodates both of you.
Spezifikationen
Sprache
- Englisch
Autor
- Jordan Ellis
Erscheinungsjahr
- 2026
Format
- Buch (Softcover)
Anzahl Seiten
- 220