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The Secrecy Instinct
Why We Hide Money From the People We Love Most
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Readers First Publishing Unsere-Artikel-Nr.: P36360702
EAN: 9781804280980
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Zustellung: Do, 29.10.2026
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Beschreibung
Do you round down the cost of a coffee when your partner asks. Do you keep a private account "just in case". Have you ever given a fast, reassuring answer about a bill you haven't actually checked. In The Secrecy Instinct: Why We Hide Money From the People We Love Most, Jordan Ellis reveals that financial secrecy isn't about dishonesty-it's an ancient protective reflex misfiring in our most intimate relationships. We don't hide money to deceive; we hide it to protect our identities, our sense of responsibility, and our self-worth. Drawing on behavioral economics, psychology, and family systems theory, Ellis dismantles the deep-rooted taboo of money in relationships. This guide explores eight common patterns of financial concealment, including:. The numbers you reflexively round down to protect a "responsible" image. The private accounts built as exit-insurance for relationships you have no intention of leaving. The unopened bills you ignore to avoid cognitive dissonance. The silent, mental ledgers you keep instead of asking for a fair split. The unspoken generational rules surrounding family inheritances. Rather than offering rigid budgeting templates or demanding total transparency, this book provides the tools to recognize your own threat-assessment machinery. By understanding why we hide, we can finally stop treating our loved ones like auditors and start dismantling the exhausting vigilance of secrecy.
Spezifikationen
Sprache
- Englisch
Autor
- Jordan Ellis
Erscheinungsjahr
- 2026
Format
- Buch (Softcover)
Anzahl Seiten
- 222